Dreams Do Come True

Two days ago I rode Elliot for the very first time. I have been on his back before, even sat there for about 20 minutes, except he didn't understand my cues to walk forward, so he just stood there, turning his head to nudge at my legs.

But Sunday I was ready, had made plans to ride him. I brushed him, cleaned his hooves, and saddled him up. Then I put on the hackamore I have had for 20 years. I had purchased it for a little Arabian I had way back in 1988 - Sasha.

I lunged him first to take any piss and vinegar out of him and then Hubby took the dogs for Jeep ride around the property while I walked Elliot to my pick up. I led him to the back where the tail gate was down and used that to sit in the saddle. He wanted to stop by the bushes to munch, so I had to use some coaxing to get him to keep walking, but he did.

We did two ventures around the pasture.

Looking at the pictures Hubby took, I plan to do a couple of things differently.

One is is bridle. I knew it was small and had looked at others, but hadn't found anything here I really liked. I will order one today. It is much too small for him. Plus, I didn't have reins. I do now.

Two, I don't like the look of the Austrailan saddle on him. Hubby has been encouraging me to buy a Western saddle. I will do that real soon as well.

And, three, the martingale has to go. I realized that Sunday when I was riding him - you see, because he is still green, he does not understand reining and the martingale restricts the radius of pulling the reins from one side or the other. He is not a head thrower or anything like that, and all I was using them for was to keep the saddle from slipping back. We'll just leave them off next time.

It felt so wonderful to be up on his back. Now for me to get back to the weight I was when I brought him home and for him to grow a little taller.

The Three Chickens

A few days ago a friend brought over three Bantam's - two hens and a rooster - which I named after my Aunt Sandra and Uncle Charlie, with the third bird named after my Mom, Shirley. Charlie Boy, Sandra, and Shirley quickly settled right in, temporarily making the horse trailer their roost.

On the first morning, the trio ventured out, doing what chickens do, pecking, scratching, and clucking. Hubby decided to go check on the birds as they foraged on the edge of the woods. Three of the dogs joined him for the walk.

I missed the action, but from what I heard, Blondie was tenacious in her quest of the feathered fowl, sending the trio flapping for any tree limb, branch, or perch out of her reach. Charlie Boy took roost on a pencil-thin branch of a scraggly pine tree, Sandra found a sturdier roost on a fallen Oak branch, about two feet above the ground but nestled in the thick underbrush, and Shirley, well Shirley flew the coop so to speak.

The remaining two birds eventually settled down and went back to their chicken ways and the search for Shirley was on. Dozens of forages through the thick Southern brush on the back edge of our property was conducted through out the day. At times, I would stand there quietly hoping to hear the cluck cluck cluck of Shirley, but alas, Shirley was not to be seen or heard. Just like my mother, she was out doing her own thing.

On the second day, more searches for Shirley were done, but hope was getting dim of finding more than scattered feathers of her foray into the wild, wild jungle of southern Mississippi. Meanwhile, the other two feathered foul went on as if Shirley's disappearance was matter of course. Sandra, while scratching for food, absentmindedly wandered into the paddock area where Elliot had taken up post since their arrival, his head hung over the back door of the horse trailer, amusing himself watching the chickens.

So, here struts Sandra, her head down pecking at strands of hay, out between Elliot's front legs, not a clue of what she was getting into. That's when Elliot decided it was time to tap dance around Sandra, his head shaking, his front hooves raising up into the air before coming down around Sandra, who by this time was squawking and flapping, and trying to get away from the dance.

In the meantime, Charlie Boy, sensing the need to rescue his damsel in distress, gets sidetracked by Blondie and Ocho, who have decided chicken for lunch just might do the trick. Charlie Boy makes it to the roof of the trailer, as I scurry to round up Sandra, who is just plain mad now.

I toss the two fowl back into the trailer, shoo off the dogs, and take one more look for Shirley.

On Day Three of Shirley's departure, I hook E & E out front so I clean the barn and paddock area in light of a weather report to expect foul weather. (Yes, I used that word on purpose). As I pushed the wheelbarrow into the stall, lo and behold, in the rafters there perched Shirley, looking a little ragged with one, crooked tail feather left and a flopping crest.

Not to let her AWOL episode go without a climax, I find a long branch to poke her out from her roost, which is abut ten feet off the ground. After a brief chase around the paddock, with Blondie and Ocho back out to help in case I needed it, I manage to catch Shirley.

I carried her back to the horse trailer turned chicken coop, and toss her back in with Charlie Boy and Sandra. Charlie Boy, upon seeing the disheveled Shirley, decides to do the strut, (now I understand where the phrase cocky comes from), and begins pecking at her while doing this one wing dance around her. Not to be outdone or be brought back into submission, Shirley responds by pecking Sandra, and Sandra runs around like, well shall we say, a chicken without its head. Soon, though, the trio settle down and go back to all the pecking, scratching, and clucking chickens do.

I wonder how long it will be before Shirley goes out on the town again?

The Quirks of Barbed Wire

Tuesday

Barbed wire. A thin string of metal with small twists of sharper wire, some with two-prongs, some three, and others four. It is unforgiving to clothing, skin, and hair. But it keeps a curious horse wherever you want them kept. For over a century, this "Devil's Rope" has divided livestock, land, and people.

Barbed wire was first devised in 1867 when two different men, at different places, tried to construct a fencing other than smooth wire to contain their livestock. Neither were successful as one method was not practical and the other did not have the financial means.

A year later an Illinois man, Joseph Glidden found a more practical and less expensive way to manufacture a wire with barbs on it and the fencing of the West began.

But, by 1883 free range ranchers, trail drivers, and settlers became concerned this new fencing would stifle their way of livelihood, impeding passage of livestock and people. So opposed were the sides - those who wanted the fencing and those who did not - violence broke out and a war, the Fence Cutter War ensued. So fierce was the opposition to the "Devil's Rope", that legislation was eventually enacted to make cutting a fence line a felony.

Soon, though, the land ranchers won out, most notably those in Texas, and the fencing in of the West move forward with force.

Today there are over 570 patents of various barbed wire. Here in Carriere, I am using a two-prong heavy gauge barbed wire. To string the fencing, we set a six foot 4 by 4 in the ground after digging the hole with a post hole digger. Getting past the first eight inches of sand is the most difficult part of digging the hole, but once we reach the smooth red clay, tufts of soil are quickly pulled from the hole.

Then we position the Jeep with its winch about 15 feet from the post and walk the barbed wire, which is on a roll, from one post to the other where we hook a fence tightener onto the winch and thread the wire through it. Now, with its barbs, this wire tends to cling, viciously I must add, to everything - dog fur, skin, grass - so it takes a certain finesse, and leather gloves to handle the stuff.

Once everything is fastened, we carefully draw the winch in, one click at a time. We are careful on how tight we pull the wire - not enough tension and the wire will sag, even once fastened to T-posts; too much tension snaps the wire sending it in a free-throw frenzy - and then nail it with a wire nail, a horseshoe shaped metal nail, to the wooden post. Once that is done, the wire is cut to go back and start the next strand.

Since moving here, I have learned how to pass through strands of barbed wire, carefully tightening my body, and slipping through the strands, while also knowing how to stop in mid-slide and move back slightly to release snagged clothing, before slipping through. I have learned how to hold it, how to untangle it, how to roll up loose strands.

But, it still will get me once in a while leaving fingers sore, bloody legs, torn shirts. But, there is nothing like to stop a curious horse from getting out.

It's All In The Rye

11th November, 2008
Tuesday
Carriere, Mississippi

Here in the South, when winter sets in, many of us who own pasture land find that we must plant a winter grass - rye - so that our horses, cows, and other grazing livestock, have a supply of roughage. It is either that or buy hay. And since I am trying to no longer buy hay, today I will be seeding with rye part of the pasture so that the horse and donkey will have something to eat other than their feed.

From what I figure it will cost $65 an acre between the seed and the fertilizer, and for the winter I am only going to do a couple of acres. Next year, when we have the tractor, I will do more, but for now that should do it.

The weather has been a bit on the chilly side the last couple of days, but it is much better than Upstate New York at this time of year. The shorter days are still bothersome, especially now that overtime for Jimmy has kicked into gear - he leaves home when it is dark and it is dark by the time he pulls in the driveway. That makes for a long day for me.

As I was explaining to him last night, before, when he was out of town, out of state, out of the country, I knew what to do by myself. Read a book, watch a movie, email friends. I would spend some time at the barn, plant some flowers, toss the Frisbee. I knew I was going to bed alone and I was comfortable with my own company.

I am still comfortable with my own company, but now, with his departure and arrival as part of the day's rhythm, I am out of sync, in a suspended state waiting for either to happen. I know this is temporary until I adjust to our new roles, our new Paradise Lost, our new time zone.

But it's presence is an enigma to me. I can stay busy - there is much to do, but I also am not busy, sometimes just in a dream all by myself. I am sometimes confused by this lack of focus and clear direction, but at the same time it is as if I need that now in my life given all the chaos of the last few years.

Today, I will not only sow the rye seed, but I will load sand onto my truck and from there, into the barn to level the floor and keep E & E dry.

Earl is Feeling His Oats

10th November, 2008
Monday

Carriere, Mississippi

What do they mean by the saying "Feeling his oats"? What the saying means is to feel frisky or animated, to display self-importance.

Well, that was Earl yesterday. This is what happened.

I decided to finally put the hackamore on Elliot and get on his back again as he is now 19 months old. It was my second time on his back. Jim held onto his bridle while also giving me a leg up. But once I was on Elliot's back he didn't want to go anywhere. Jim went inside and got a carrot, hoping to entice Elliot into walking forward, but all El kept doing was turning his head back around and nosing my leg.

Deciding that I had been on him long enough and not wanting to push my luck, I dismounted, without Jim holding him, and decided we'd walk the perimeter of the pasture and have an easy training session.

Earl the donkey, watched as I walked out of the yard and into the pasture with Elliot. I figured he might follow, but usually that is the extent of his antics.

So off I go with Elliot and we practice walking, whoaing, and reining. Gus decides to join us and I think nothing of it as Gus does not bother the horse.

As I turn up along the fence line, I am enjoying my quiet time with Elliot, when my calm was interrupting with the barking of excited dogs. I glance up to see two of my neighbors dogs rushing toward the fence. They had gone under the barbed wire in the past, so I was nervous they would again and I would have some issues, if only minor ones, with Elliot.

They became the least of my worries when simultaneously, on the opposite side, I hear a deafening noise, like an mad elephant charging through the underbrush, and look up just in time to see Donkey crashing through the backyard brush in a full gallop, heading directly for the fence. Now remember, this is the same donkey the vet suggested I euthanize just a couple of months ago because his coffin bones had rotated and he was so lame and in so much pain until this farrier down here trimmed his hooves.

Gus, who had been just sniffing along the brush line, started to get frantic and so do I because Earl's new-found non-lameness has him doing more and one of those things is to try and chase down Blondie and Gus. Donkeys are known to be coyote killers, so being a dog killer is not a far toss.

At the same time, Elliot starts to whip around and snort and act a bit ditzy with all the craziness going on, all the while I am hanging onto him while also shouting to Gus to come, to trust in me, so I can protect him from Earl.

In the meantime, Donkey, spotting the neighbor's dogs on their side of the fence, still yapping in full steam, starts galloping up and down the fence line, head down, ears back, front hooves stomping, while also bellowing. I would have liked to have been a fly on the wall watching all this action.

Jim, who had been sitting in the rocking chair on the back porch saw the comotion unfolding, and commanding Blondie and Abel to stay at the house, came out to retrieve Gus, who had gone against all instincts, staying by my side in spite of Elliot twisting and turning and Earl bellowing and galloping, and hooving.

Jim hollered to me that I should start walking Elliot back towards the house once he had Gus protected and the neighbors dogs were on their own.

But even putting Elliot back in their pasture section was not enough to bring Earl back, so I hiked back into the pasture with a lead, but had to head toward the front of the pasture along the roadway, where Donkey had run. That damn donkey watched me as I approached him, making my way through the tall pasture grass, his head alert, ears up, nostrils flaring.

But, when I got within ten feet of him, he started to trot back toward the house. In the meantime, Jim had gone to stand by the pasture where Elliot was as he was running full speed, back and forth, barely stopping before coming into contact with the barbed wire fence.

Once in the yard, Earl let me approach him and walk him back to the pasture with Elliot.

After that chaotic workout, Jim and I sat down and had a drink.

Some Days are Diamonds

Wednesday
30th October, 2008

Today is a diamond.

This morning, when I went outside to start Jim's truck for him, I was once again in awe of the night stars here in the South. They are brilliant specks of diamond dust tossed across a deepest of blue night sky in what seems like random order. But when I stop to gaze at them, I notice how their positions in the sky make a glittering patchwork of art. There has to be a Higher Power for something so magnificant, so beautiful to be at our visual enjoyment at the end and start of every day.

There has been some frost the last few mornings, but it warms up nicely during the day. This weekend is forecast for beautiful weather - the kind we dream of in the Northeast.

When I read the papers from back North, I see how difficult it must have been for Jim to truly understand how difficult it was for me all those winters alone on Happy Hill. It seems otherworldly since this moment, in this place, is so different.

Perhaps that is the problem with this world. We can not put ourselves in the shoes of someone else, whether it is in this country or one oceans away. We intellectually know what they are experiencing, and some of us have experienced it first hand, but once we are removed from that situation it becomes surreal, like a fairy tale.

A Day in the Life of E & E

24 October, 2008
Friday
Today I have spent trying to tidy up what will be my office, and also look for writing positions I can freelance at. It has been a quiet day here in Carriere, Mississippi, with a cold, wet feel to the air. I received a letter from Christine today - she is in Florida staying with her Dad. I think it is best for her as it is a new and fresh start.

We have yet had the opportunity to go for a bike ride since moving here - Jim is too tired in the afternoon and the weekends have been settling in tasks.

Moving to a new area after 25 years in one place has been an adventure. To me the most difficult thing has been the absence of friends close by. Not that I visited anyone very often, but a short ride would take me to familiar places where people knew me, have known me, like me. Here I am home all day, but it feels good to not have to go into work, especially after the nightmare of a job I had at The Recorder, no less than 50 hours a week.

More tomorrow.